249 - Decode Your Money Stories To Discover Hidden Blocks Sabotaging Your Success - With Eloise Tomkins

Season #2

Ever felt a wave of awkwardness when talking about money, whether it’s asking for it, spending it, or just looking at your bank account?

Maybe you simply avoid it altogether!

Most women in business have, at one point or another, faced these uncomfortable feelings.

You might have even identified some money blocks and tried saying affirmations to shift them - which can help you feel good in the moment, but the awkward feelings keep recurring.

What if these reactions aren’t just “all in your head”?

Have you ever considered that your body’s nervous system is the underlying source of your discomfort, keeping you stuck in patterns that make bringing in more money harder than it needs to be?

In this episode, I’m joined by Eloise Tompkins—a psychologist, somatic expert and money coach with a talent for helping women untangle their complicated emotional responses to money so they can take their businesses to 7 figures without the shackles holding them back.

Eloise’s approach is refreshingly real and practical. She blends science-backed nervous system regulation strategies with her deep knowledge of subconscious money blocks, and the unique experiences of entrepreneurship.

She’s here because she deeply understands why so many female entrepreneurs feel blocked, stuck, or nervous around money - and what you can actually do to shift it, for good.

Here’s a taste of what we get into:

  1. Why does your nervous system react so strongly to money conversations, and how is this different from just changing your “money mindset”?

  2. What are some classic signs you’re stuck in an old money story or survival mode, even if you rationally know better?

  3. How is the relationship with money different, or maybe more challenging, for women? (And what can we do about it?)

  4. What practical steps can you use to calm your reactions, reset your nervous system, and start making decisions that help, not sabotage, your business growth?

  5. How can you learn to spot these patterns and gently start rewiring them, so you can feel comfortable asking for, receiving, and keeping the money you deserve?

If you want money to feel less stressful and more like the oxygen your business needs to thrive, this conversation is for you.

Listen in for fresh insights and honest talk you won’t want to miss!

About our Guest:

Eloise Tomkins is a psychologist turned money mindset coach who helps women in business stop spiralling every time they level up. Known for blending deep nervous system work with practical strategy, she’s the coach clients call when the “should be working” stops working... and they’re ready to make more money without burning out, people-pleasing, or overdelivering.

With over a decade of experience helping women break through trauma, anxiety, and emotional survival patterns, Eloise now helps women feel safe, anchored, and regulated at higher levels of income, visibility, and leadership.

Her clients are brilliant, driven, and often have solid foundations in place in their business—but they still flinch at raising their rates, avoid looking at their bank account, or feel like they’re one DM away from crashing. Eloise teaches them how to expand without snapping—and how to finally hold the money, power, and peace they’ve been working for.

Her approach is raw, research-backed, and deeply human. She built her own business without hustle, pressure, or performance—and helps her clients do the same

Connect with Eloise:

Business name & website link: www.eloisetomkins.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_/

LinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/eloisetomkins/

Take this short quiz to discover which of the 4 hidden money identities your nervous system defaults to... and get the exact 5-minute practice to activate your authentic abundance identity.

START QUIZ https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz

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